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Sex: Relationships and Beyond
Does talking about sex make you feel like awkward? Do you get embarrassed? Nervous? Tongue-tied? Many people feel uncomfortable talking about sex and sexual issues. Whether you're sexually active or not, you need to be able to talk openly and honestly about sex. These pages have communication tips for those who are sexually active and those who aren't.
General recommendations for dating encounters:
- Set sexual limits. It is your body, and no one has the right to force you to do anything you do not want to do. The sooner you communicate firmly and clearly your sexual intentions, the easier it will be for your partner to hear and accept your decision.
- Be assertive on your dates. Do not do anything you do not want to do to just avoid disagreement or unpleasant interaction.
- Maintain control of your comfort level. If you feel things are getting out of your control, be loud in protesting, leave, or go for help.
- Use a confident voice and body posture. If you want the person to stop, look directly at him or her and say "NO" in a firm, serious voice.
- Trust your intuition. If you feel uncomfortable, scared, or pressured, voice your discomfort or leave the situation.
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